{"id":1762,"date":"2012-10-29T14:53:07","date_gmt":"2012-10-29T20:53:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/?p=1762"},"modified":"2012-10-30T19:12:19","modified_gmt":"2012-10-31T01:12:19","slug":"power-powerful-powerlessness-can-you-roll-with-all-three","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/?p=1762","title":{"rendered":"Power, Powerful, Powerlessness Can YOU Roll With All Three?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Song_of_Storms_by_kire1987.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1768\" title=\"Song_of_Storms_by_kire1987\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Song_of_Storms_by_kire1987.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Song_of_Storms_by_kire1987.jpg 1000w, http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Song_of_Storms_by_kire1987-300x240.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a>Today I am contemplating the importance of Power and Powerlessness. Maybe some of this has to do with the fact that Rex and I are camped out at my mom&#8217;s house waiting for\u00a0Super Storm Sandy to knock the power out. But some of it is that I&#8217;m just coming off of speaking at the <a href=\"http:\/\/powerupweekend.com\/\"><strong>Power Up Weekend 2012<\/strong> <\/a>and prior to that I was interviewed on <strong>Powerful U Radio<\/strong> by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/APowerfulU?fref=ts \">Uneeka Jay, Power Mommy <\/a>on the subject of\u00a0 <strong>The Power of Vision<\/strong> and then after that I was interviewed by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/JamieFlemingDixon\"><strong>Jamie Fleming-Dixon<\/strong> <\/a>on For Colored Gurls blog talk show to discuss passion and how that gives us power (click)\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/forcoloredgurls\/2012\/10\/25\/flyy-female-fabulous-dr-nicole-cutts\"><strong>Flyy, Female &amp; Fabulous: Dr. Nicole Cutts<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0to listen in.<\/p>\n<p>Uneeka asked me a couple of\u00a0questions in particular which really got me thinking. One was, &#8220;When you think of being powerful, what does that mean to you?&#8221; and the other was\u00a0&#8220;Do you think most women feel powerful?&#8221; To hear my responses to those questions click <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/powerful-u-media\/2012\/10\/13\/the-power-of-vision-with-dr-nicole-cutts\"><strong>The Power of Vision With Dr. Nicole Cutts<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/storm1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-1776\" title=\"storm\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/storm1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"415\" height=\"443\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/storm1.jpg 692w, http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/storm1-281x300.jpg 281w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 415px) 100vw, 415px\" \/><\/a>I love feeling powerful&#8230;I mean who doesn&#8217;t? Yes power comes with responsibility and that can sometimes be daunting but I definatley prefer power to it&#8217;s flip side; powerlessness. Even as I type this the storm is picking up power and speed and as it does so I feel threatened and yes a little bit scared. Why am I scared? I like to CONTROL, that&#8217;s a part of feeling powerful; being in control. In control of myself, my work, my vision, my destiny, but am I, are we REALLY in control? I certainly don&#8217;t control mother nature. I don&#8217;t control the wind or the rain or any of that powerful stuff. I wish I did. I mean life would be so easy if I controlled everything, right? Yes sure it would but then I wouldn&#8217;t be a human being. I find it&#8217;s a lot more difficult to accept my powerlessness and to accept my human frailty.<\/p>\n<p>One of my jobs is to empower women (myself included) and I love any ability I have to do<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands-around-globe1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1769\" title=\"hands around globe\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands-around-globe1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands-around-globe1.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/hands-around-globe1-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a> this. One way I do this is by passing on the lessons I learn. Today the lesson I&#8217;m working on\u00a0is to become better at accepting powerlessness, to know that I can plan and wish and pray and work hard but there are always going to be forces beyond my control like old Super\u00a0Storm Sandy that I don&#8217;t control. This I have to accept.<\/p>\n<p>So we will see what happens. My gutters are cleaned, I&#8217;ve stocked up on dog food (for Rex), I\u00a0have done what work I can that requires the internet, I&#8217;m at mom&#8217;s where all the provisions are so all that&#8217;s left is to wait and see how well I can roll with what comes next. Oh but I wont be rolling alone because in order to get through my lessons I need a little help. I find a great tool for situations such as this is the Serenity Prayer: God\/Goddess grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Amen!<\/p>\n<p>I would love to hear your thoughts on power and powerlessness. Feel free to leave a comment here or drop by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/VisionQuestRetreats\"><strong>The Vision Quest Retreats with Dr. Nicole Cutts<\/strong> <\/a>Facebook page and leave your comments there.<\/p>\n<p>Much continued success and well being,<\/p>\n<p>Nicole<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/talking-to-tevyka-small1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1773\" title=\"talking to tevyka small\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/talking-to-tevyka-small1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/talking-to-tevyka-small1.jpg 640w, http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/talking-to-tevyka-small1-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>To view more pics from the Power Up 2012 Conference click <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/media\/set\/?set=a.10152136099501664.409657.138413556663&amp;type=3\"><strong>Power Up!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I am contemplating the importance of Power and Powerlessness. 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