{"id":870,"date":"2011-04-27T16:03:02","date_gmt":"2011-04-27T22:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/?p=870"},"modified":"2011-06-08T19:30:18","modified_gmt":"2011-06-09T01:30:18","slug":"do-you-suffer-from-perfectionism-well-try-this","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/?p=870","title":{"rendered":"Do You Suffer From Perfectionism? Well Try this&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Do you suffer from the insidious disease; perfectionism?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you do you are not alone, many women (and men) who are living their visions of success still deal with this <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Mommy-and-Nick1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-877\" title=\"Mommy and Nick\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Mommy-and-Nick1-300x277.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Mommy-and-Nick1-300x277.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Mommy-and-Nick1.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>challenge (myself included). One of the antidotes I have found is to remember that before I ever accomplished a single thing, ever won a medal, got a good or bad grade,\u00a0published an article or even learned to walk and talk, I was <strong>PERFECT<\/strong>. I was born a perfect little baby girl and so were all of us. I try to remember even when I \u201cfail\u201d or fall short that I am still perfect JUST AS I AM.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Natalie Merchant wrote a song called \u201cWonder\u201d that I love.<\/strong> I listen to it when I am celebrating living my vision AND when I feel down, defeated, or less than perfect (like right now while I am procrastinating instead of working on my book). I wanted to share it with you all today on <a href=\"http:\/\/www..facebook.com\/home.php#!\/pages\/Women-Owned-Business-Wednesdays\/121247821271138\"><strong>Women Owned Business Wednesday<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>to remind <strong>US<\/strong> that we are all miracles so&#8230;Happy Just Being Ourselves Day!<\/p>\n<p>Watch Natalie Merchant singing \u201c<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=vRpfHGgKhtc\">Wonder<\/a><\/strong>\u201d live.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Natalie-Merchant.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-871\" title=\"Natalie Merchant\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Natalie-Merchant.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"160\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Wonder<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Doctors have come from distant cities<br \/>\nJust to see me<br \/>\nStand over my bed<br \/>\nDisbelieving what they&#8217;re seeing<\/p>\n<p>They say I must be one of the wonders<br \/>\nOf god&#8217;s own creation<br \/>\nAnd as far as they can see they can offer<br \/>\nNo explanation<\/p>\n<p>Newspapers ask intimate questions<br \/>\nWant confessions<br \/>\nThey reach into my head<br \/>\nTo steal the glory of my story<\/p>\n<p>They say I must be one of the wonders<br \/>\nOf god&#8217;s own creation<br \/>\nAnd as far as they can see they can offer<br \/>\nNo explanation<\/p>\n<p>O, I believe<br \/>\nFate smiled and destiny<br \/>\nLaughed as she came to my cradle<br \/>\nKnow this child will be able<br \/>\nLaughed as my body she lifted<br \/>\nKnow this child will be gifted<br \/>\nWith love, with patience and with faith<br \/>\nShe&#8217;ll make her way<\/p>\n<p>People see me<br \/>\nI&#8217;m a challenge to your balance<br \/>\nI&#8217;m over your heads<br \/>\nHow I confound you and astound you<br \/>\nTo know I must be one of the wonders<br \/>\nOf god&#8217;s own creation<br \/>\nAnd as far as you can see you can offer me<br \/>\nNo explanation<\/p>\n<p>O, I believe<br \/>\nFate smiled and destiny<br \/>\nLaughed as she came to my cradle<br \/>\nKnow this child will be able<br \/>\nLaughed as she came to my mother<br \/>\nKnow this child will not suffer<br \/>\nLaughed as my body she lifted<br \/>\nKnow this child will be gifted<br \/>\nWith love, with patience and with faith<br \/>\nShe&#8217;ll make her way<\/p>\n<p><strong>**If you are a woman (21+) and would like to contribute to the book I\u2019m writing on women living their Visions of Success please click this link to access<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.surveymonkey.com\/s.aspx?sm=owJw5CixCl3pXrJR0lPIEg_3d_3d\">The Vision Quest Survey<\/a>\u00a0**<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you have any questions about the project please contact:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nicole Cutts, Ph.D., CEO<\/strong><strong><br \/>\n<strong>Cutts Consulting, LLC &amp; Vision Quest Retreats <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/\">www.nicolecutts.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>202.669.5777<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you suffer from the insidious disease; perfectionism? If you do you are not alone, many women (and men) who are living their visions of success still deal with this challenge (myself included). One of the antidotes I have found &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/?p=870\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-870","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=870"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":953,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870\/revisions\/953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=870"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=870"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nicolecutts.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=870"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}